Saturday, August 20, 2005

One week!!!

Okay - we'll be in Colorado to get the girls in ONE WEEK. We leave next Saturday morning, and will get into town around 2:00 or so. The going away party for Nikki and Emily is scheduled for around 4:00, where they'll get to say goodbye to the members of their adoption team along with their teachers and friends from school. Speaking of school, they'll start this coming Wednesday at their school in Colorado. It's nice, because they'll get a chance to make some closure with their friends there (the ones who won't be able to make it to the party on Saturday, that is) before starting up at a new school here in Washington.

Some prayer requests come to mind - please pray as you feel led:

Transitions. For all the hoopla and grandiosity going on, and despite the fact the girls are finally coming to their forever home, we still have to remember that they are eight and ten years old, and that while transitions are often difficult for adults, they can be mind-bending for kids.

Spiritual Protection. We spent the better part of our time in the van playing the 2005 Vacation Bible School CD, which I've written about at length. The girls attended not one, but two VBS's, back to back, two weeks ago. Many, many seeds have been sown in that fertile soil - pray that they would be given a chance to grow.

Special Protection. For reasons of confidentiality, I'm not going to go into any details with this, but suffice it to say the Lord knows what kind of risk I'm referring to. It is definitely short-term, and (very most likely) lacking any real power. But still.

Final Preparations. The girls' bedroom is done, the garage sale to sell off the baby stuff is done (as of 42 minutes ago, in fact), the new flowers and landscaping are in in the front, and the family room carpet has been steam-cleaned. There's still so much more to do, much more than I'd care to list.

Travel Safety. The ever-present bugaboo of getting places in a timely manner in one piece. We drove down to Colorado to see the girls; to bring them home, we're flying. It'll be Nikki's first flight, Emily's second. We'll be chasing the sun home, arriving in Portland about 6:30 Sunday night, which means there'll be plenty of daylight left for them to see their new home with. (I'm overcome at the moment with visions of millions of Israelites crossing over into the Promised Land... although, since moving to Vancouver from Southern California in 1995, I've come to think of this place as just that myself).

Time as a family. My school year starts on the 29th, the day after Emily and Nikki get home. I'm going in that first day, then taking the rest of the week off so we can be together. (We only go four days that week anyway, so it's not so bad, missing three days - my contract says I'm allowed up to A YEAR OFF for an adoption, so I figure I'm being quite reasonable and professional only taking three days). Pray that our time together would be good and profitable for us as a family, and that my classroom wouldn't spin off its axis without its teacher for three of the first four days of school.

That's about it for now. Love and peace to all.

6 Comments:

At 1:53 AM, Blogger Alison Hodgson said...

I am putting you all on the calendar to remind me to pray.

I am glad you mentioned the baby stuff. What a big shift this is for you guys. Fantastic, amazing, a gift, but not what you expected. When you went through all the baby things did you guys mourn that loss? Perhaps you already had, but I have really awakened to the truth of "Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted" in every situation. The only time I have fully mourned was after the death of my father. After going to a marriage retreat that focused on the Beatitudes I realized how important mourning is for every disappointment or wound.

Sometimes, mourning is as simple as saying, "Ouch, that hurt. I wish that hadn't happened." and then giving it to God.

I don't want to presume. But it sounds like you and your wife are cleaning house literally and spiritually as you wait for the girls.

I really think God is proud of you guys, the way you are working so hard and have already persevered so long to receive, with open arms, the gifts He has for you.

God bless your family.

 
At 11:34 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow...I can't believe it is here already. God's beautiful timing. May He bless your family abundantly...you are in our prayers (as always)!
Dri

 
At 7:45 PM, Blogger KMJ said...

Thanks you for posting such a detailed prayer request list. It is so helpful to be able to direct prayers just to the right topics -- God always knows what we need -- but it's just a cool to be a bit more involved in it myself. :) Blessings on the whole family!

 
At 8:28 AM, Blogger Sam said...

Reading this account of the preparations involved when adopting kids reminds me that God is preparing a "forever home" for us--His adopted children. Just as you are filled with great anticipation, I am sure their is a family (of persons know and unknown and a host of other heavenly creatures) that are excited about our "home-coming". Just a joyous thought. Thanks for sharing and I'll be praying!
~Heather

 
At 10:27 AM, Blogger Steve Coan said...

Scooter, my mom passed away a month ago. When we went through the safe deposit box at the bank, we found all the correspondence between my parents and Volunteers of America, the infant adoption agency for both my sister and me. What a treasure. For your girls, I hope you will not only save all of their official documents, but also your letters, your journals, even this blog. Someday they will treasure it. Mostly they will treasure the personal things, no matter how wise or silly they seem in retrospect.

 
At 8:41 PM, Blogger KMJ said...

Just had to post a note and say... TODAY IS THAT DAY! Praying it will be all that you each desire, and that you grow to realize how FULL that really is. Blessings, joy, and more blessings. :)

 

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